The things people noticed, the conversations they avoided, and the changes they’re still working on.
My partner quit porn and I gave up my own occasional use alongside him. Five months on, his morning erections are back and so is the spark between us.
Read the story : We quit porn together and the butterflies came backI told my fiancée about my porn problem and she promised to help. Then she found my videos. Now I'm out of work, back in the habit, and she has no idea.
Read the story : I told my fiancée about porn, then went back to hiding itHe said he loved me while we went weeks without sex, then admitted he was addicted to porn. Nine months on, I keep catching him and I can't stop checking.
Read the story : No sex for weeks, then he told me he was addicted to pornHe stopped for me, not because he saw a problem. Now he's on edge and isolating himself, and I don't know whether to step back or stay close.
Read the story : My fiancé quit porn because I asked, then pulled away from meWe're expecting a baby. He knows he's hooked, lies when I ask, and when we do have sex he gets no pleasure from it. Nothing I try reaches him.
Read the story : My husband has avoided sex for two years, but he still watches porn almost every daySex stopped when my wife got pregnant, and I escaped into porn. Three years on, I love her, she wants me, and I keep letting her down.
Read the story : Since our son was born, porn has replaced sex with my wifeMy husband says watching is harmless and only occasional. I know he watches almost daily, while sex with me has become a weekly favour.
Read the story : He watches porn every morning, but sex with me feels like a favourI'm 23 and still a virgin. I ended things with most of the girls I dated; they left me indifferent. I've lost to porn so many times I've stopped counting.
Read the story : I never fell in love, because porn always felt easierFor two years he barely wanted sex and said it was my fault. Then he admitted to daily porn, and now I can't tell whether he's telling me the truth.
Read the story : My boyfriend blamed my moods, then admitted he watched porn every dayHe could only finish by hand, and I could see his mind drifting to porn. We agreed he had a problem, and now I'm trying to help him quit.
Read the story : My boyfriend got hard easily but couldn't finish with meI'm 29, divorced, and women simply stopped attracting me. A few days ago I finally quit, and I'm riding out the mood swings.
Read the story : Looking back, porn wrecked my marriage and my interest in womenAfter a great start, my partner always had an excuse. Then I checked his history and saw he watched porn right around the times he turned me down.
Read the story : He was always too tired for sex, but not for porn